Week of Outfits: Dahana | Cup of Jo
āI think finding your personal style is just about living your life,ā says Dahana, an artist and graphic designer living in Strasbourg, France. āWalking around, youāre gonna see something and be like, Ooh, I want to incorporate that color or texture.ā Here, Dahana shares five looks with, as she laughingly describes, as āa dress-only-for-myself vibeāā¦
Shirt: Elwood. Skirt: Catheclisma. Dress: Catheclisma. Shoes: Adidas. Bag: Marni. Scrunchie: Haas Amsterdam.
āWhen I was in high school, we were going to a wedding, and my mom told me to wear heels. But I have foot issues, so instead I wore Doc Martens with a dress. I also love how sneakers look with dresses ā if I go to a fancy restaurant, I just have to decide which to wear.ā
Shirt: Elwood. Denim jacket: Estudio Niksen. Pants: Estudio Niksen, similar. Bag: Sunnei. Shoes: New Balance. Earrings: Sunnei. Rings: thrifted.
āWearing dark denim jeans and a dark denim jacket, I feel like no one can stop me. Itās also an easy outfit to put together when you donāt have much time.ā
āSpring and fall are my favorite times to dress, since you can wear a cute jacket or colorful sweater. In the summer, though, I go outside and immediately start sweating. On warm days, jewelry is a way to add style even when youāre wearing a T-shirt and shorts.ā
Shirt: Celosia-re, in white. Skirt: āHandmade by my mom,ā similar. Shoes: Ganni. Bag: PolĆØne. Sunglasses: Chimi.
āIām shy, so in high school, fashion felt like a good way to express myself āĀ even though I got made fun of. Then I went to university and wasnāt feeling very good. I stopped caring about the way I dressed; Iād just throw on clothes. But a few years ago, I was like, Wait, I love fashion, and I have to find a way to love myself again. These days, I feel good about the way I dress and I feel good inside.ā
Shirt: Sandro. Skirt: Samsoe. Shoes: Keen. Bag: Sandro. Scrunchie: āHandmade by my mom.ā
āArt has always been another way to express myself. People usually stop drawing when they start school. Youāre told to focus on math or science, but Iām not a math person or a science person. In class, I was the one drawing different eyes in my notebook.ā
āWhen I see someone who is well dressed, even if itās not my style, I cannot deny it. Although Iām shy, I have to let them know. Iāll psych myself up: Dahana! Go tell her! This is the moment! I know that when someone stops me to compliment what Iām wearing, it gives me a huge confidence boost.ā
Dress: Eliza Faulkner. Shoes: Ganni. Bag: Jigsaw, similar. Sunglasses: Ace & Tate. Scrunchie: Nasty Gal.
āWhen I see a piece of clothing I like, I ask myself, Can I find it in a thrift store? If I canāt find it vintage, Iāll let it sit for a week or two before deciding whether to buy it. Or, if I have a clothing vision in my mind that I cannot find online, Iāll be like, āMom, can we make it?ā She made me a black skirt, and every time I wear it, people ask where itās from. Iām proud to say, āMy mom made it for me!’ā
āAnother test about whether to buy something: Iāll try to mentally create 10 different outfits around it. If you can create only one or two, you probably donāt need it.ā
āYour hair is part of your outfit. You canāt forget it. I like scrunchies because they add color in my hair. And thereās a woman I follow on Instagram, Kayra, who does amazing stuff with her braids. She creates masterpieces.ā
Thanks so much for sharing, Dahana.
P.S. More women share their weeks of outfits, including a gardener who overcame a stutter and a stripes-lover who talks about losing her dad.
(Photos by Vanessa A. Photography.)